Posts Tagged ‘mommy’

What I Learned This Week

Friday, April 24th, 2009

After an activity filled Easter and post-Easter, this week’s lessons fell mostly around Problogger’s 31 Days to Build a Better Blog Challenge.

I learned that in the world of ‘pro’ blogging, I am what is called the Toddler Blogger.

Despite the fact that I started blogging in 2004, the world of ‘pro’ blogging is a million miles away from just updating friends and family about the latest happenings of our home. I have SO MUCH more to learn from it all.

In the course of learning however, I ‘met’ many stay-at-home Mommies like myself who are making waves out there, and I have enjoyed every single one of their blogs. (Like the owner of THIS blog Carnival. ;-) ) They have been helpful, informative, endearing and at the very least, ‘takes me out’ of the four walls of my home and the loads of laundry for a while. And all the talk of laundry among Blogger Mommies this week make me want to revamp MY laundry corner!

Blogging for a stay-at-home Mommy like me connects me to the world wide web. That, is a vast ocean of resource, information and connection.

It’s no wonder then that Mommy Blogs Are The Blogs To Watch this season. I hope mine will count among them sometime.

So, go ahead, connect with Musings to see what She’s learned this week. ;-)

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Our Easter Weekend

Wednesday, April 15th, 2009

Did you have a meaningful Easter this past weekend? Ours was.

Granted we were directly involved with the preparations for the Easter Service, which saw the family rushing from one activity to another in the course of just those few days running up to Sunday.

Still, the children were delighted to have the opportunity to do some coloring during the Service, for a small competition no less!

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so focused...

looking good Sweetheart...

looking good Sweetheart...

here's Spunky & her basket of eggs..

here's Spunky & her basket of eggs..

The Littlest One was most excited about her coloring project as she had just been coloring some paper eggs as well at preschool the past week.

And… Middle Sis won the consolation prize for her artwork.

the prized pic. yay!

the prized pic..

Yay for Middle Sis!

The Children’s Buddy, J, won 3rd prize. Woot! *Note to J’s Mommy – remember to come collect J’s prize at Supercrew this Sunday. ;-)

On a sad yet peaceful note, we received the unfortunate news of the passing of a greatly respected and dearly loved Church Minister. On the way to Church, I asked the Hubby if it was odd that I felt a little sadness over his passing.  The Hubby reassuringly said no. As a young child who was learning to grow in her faith, this was a man I grew up watching. I always knew him to be humble, soft-spoken and just quietly going about doing what he felt the Lord had called him to do. I remember when he was conferred the Datukship, people said to him that we should begin to call him Datuk, although it would take a bit of an adjustment as he was already lovingly called Gembala (Pastor). He responded by saying that he was Gembala FIRST, and then Datuk. I have held him to high respect ever since.

To have gone to be with the Lord on Easter Sunday is beautiful.

Here’s a video clip that we watched during the Service that just wonderfully reminds us why Easter is the Sunday of Sundays.

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How do I love thee? Let me count the ways…

Sunday, April 5th, 2009

Four years ago today, Mommy would be in room 5 of Damai Specialist Centre, Luyang, getting prepped for your arrival. Daddy took a photo of Mommy just before going into the procedure room and said, “See? Beautiful even before delivery.”

At the last check-up before today, Dr Lim announced that you were a perfectly healthy, 3.2kg, just kicking and waiting to scream it out when you finally got here, baby girl.

Mommy sent text messages out to close friends and family to ask for prayers for a safe and uncomplicated, with an emphasis on the latter, delivery. Although Mommy had gone through a ceasarian birth three years prior, Mommy was nervous about the procedure. It is after all a surgical procedure, coming with it its own set of risks. More than anything, Mommy wanted you to be born safely.

When it was time, Mommy was still nervous. Daddy held Mommy’s hand and rubbed his thumb against Mommy’s. And Daddy prayed quietly while Dr Lim, the Anaesthetist and Aunty Kitty and her Nurses team busied themselves with their instruments and equipments. Doc then said, “Ready to receive your Baby?”

(Mommy wanted to say, “Are you kidding?! Don’t you know you don’t say these things to a woman having a Baby?!”)

“Yes, we are Doc.” said Mommy and Daddy nodded.

Doc then quietly went to work, the Lite & Easy station playing on the radio, occasionally giving out his instruction to the surgical team while chatting with the Anaesthetist about football . Once in a while, Daddy chipped in, and here were the Men talking about club standings and referees while carrying out the delicate procedure of lifting a baby out of Mommy’s womb.

Mommy felt cold in that operating room. The room was cold, the table that Mommy laid on was cold, the spinal block that had been administered to Mommy’s back felt cold.

And then, You came.

Not screaming, just a soft cry, but you were kicking.

Suddenly, it was no longer cold but this amazing feeling of warmth took over. Mommy felt warm on the cheeks and as Mommy looked at you, Mommy cried.

You were so beautiful and you still are.

Everyday since then Mommy celebrates you.

Happy Birthday my Baby Girl. Mommy loves you.

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What I Learned This Week

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

I learned that I should’ve prepared a different activity for the pre-schoolers (including my Youngest) who came to Big Sis’ birthday party this past weekend. One Darling stayed with her Mommy throughout the games, another Darling followed her Mommy everywhere and my Youngest just pushed her way into the crowd and stuck it through, but was at one time drowned out by the voices of the ‘bigger’ little people surrounding her and collapsed into my arms crying. She did recover, as always, but it would probably be nice if she were to sit with the other two Darlings doing a little activity of their own.

I learned that when you’ve run out of icing sugar, use the grinder accessory that comes with your blender and grind your caster sugar to a powder. Pure sugar! Unlike the Namye brand I got for the Bff which turned out to be a mixture of starch flour or something like that. Ew.

I learned the lyrics to Hannah Montana’s song ‘True Friend’ in the midst of organising Big Sis’ party. I found my thoughts going to the Bff and how true the words were of our friendship. I pray my Girls will have precious friendships like we have.

I love Jo Lynne’s musings on life’s ‘lessons’. Go check it out too. ;-)

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So We Had A Rockin’ Good Time

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009

UPDATE: “What?? All Words and No Pix??” Ok. Ok. Here are some. :-P

Truth be told, this is the first time I’ve organised a birthday party for Children. In all my twelve years of working full time organising events for hundreds of adults, this project consisting of 12 Children has been the most daunting! Did y’all know that “2 hours is not enough time for a party Mommy!”??

Anyhoo. So Big Sis wanted a Hannah Montana themed birthday party this year, and with today’s economic climate, we (as in, ME..) decided we would organise it ourselves this time round. I had envisioned lots of Hannah Montana paraphernalia, colorful finger food and a good amount of singing to the tunes of this famous Disney personality.

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not too bad huh? those are Ikea plasticware. ;-)

I found out however, that it was difficult to find affordable HM paraphernalia here in KK. There are loads of Disney Princess ones, and there are even stockpiles of the more recent hit with the kids – Ben 10. In the end, I’ve only managed four sheets of stickers and used them to stick to plastic crockery and other party-related items.

I bought a Hannah Montana magazine which had the bonus of a huge poster which I put up, and was able to glean ideas from it for party activities. On the day of the party, I took apart the magazine and pasted them on the walls of my Mom’s living room as part of the decorations. In hindsight, I could’ve gone to borrow some cardboard stars from someone and stuck them alongside the magazine pages to give the room a real star / celebrity / concert hall feel. Ah well.

The Children came and started off with bracelet making using beads that someone had given the Girls some time ago but was never put to use. I bought a few more and some strings and the Kids got to work. My strings were a little too fine. (See, I told you organising a Kids’ party is not a walk in the park!) Even so, most of them were able to make theirs and I got my Party Hostess to take individual pictures of them with their bracelets and with Big Sis. Sometime this week, I’ll process those photos and send them off to Big Sis’ guests as a Thank You token.

Oh. I must tell you how thankful I am for my Party Hostess, Jia Jun. The downside of doing things by yourself is being pulled on 15 different directions, and that’s just on the day itself! I was toggling back and forth from the Kitchen to the Living Room carrying out orders from my Mom (who helped with the cooking, bless her!) and organising the food table, all whilst chatting with parents.

So in the middle (literally, because they were in the living room and the food table was at the front porch) of my running around, my dear Party Hostess carried out games to keep the Children entertained. I could see that they enjoyed the last game of the day as it involved action movements to the tune of Best of Both Worlds on a piece of newspaper that they had to eventually fold into a tiny piece to dance on top of. So fun! Thank you Jun! Couldn’t have done the Games without you. *wink*

there they are! pretty huh?

there they are. so pretty!

Menu was simple. Finger food all the way. Spaghetti in individual cups. And pink guava juice. I ‘contracted’ the Bff to do an array of cupcakes for me and those turned out cute! Everyone loved them! I’m so inspired by her cupcake stand that it’s now in my to-do list to get one for myself. The cake I baked was chocolate with cookies and cream buttercream filling and frosted with purple and pink fondant. Next time I do the cake again, I will make three layers instead of two, so folks can get more of the cookies and cream. I think I did pretty well with the filling cos I got good raves about it. The cake itself. Eh.

Still. The children couldn’t keep themselves away from the food. They kept going back and forth picking up food as they went along the program for the day. I just felt so sorry for the Kids cos temperatures was humid that afternoon causing them to thirst badly. But then it rained heavily towards the evening which cooled the air a lot and was when the party ‘really’ started with the Kids watching the Best of Both Worlds Concert in the living room, in the dark! They wanted a movie theatre effect and was at one time complaining about the lights that was on at the outside (where the parents were chilling) cos it spoiled the effect a bit.

We served the food to the Kids at the Kids table where they had an individual set of placemats, plates, cutlery and cups each. We put the cupcakes right in the middle so they could all get a piece each and put the cake in front of Big Sis, to whom we sang the Happy Birthday song and then said a prayer to bless the food. And the Kids ate. I think, serving them at their own Kids size table with Kid size chairs and Kid size plates and utensils, they get to actually eat! So that’s good.

When the Kids have had their share, and sat down to watch their movie in their ‘movie theatre’, the parents finally sat down to bite-sized food, Monavie juice (which my Mom hussled around) and had our own jabs to the side from everything about Man-U’s err.. ‘declining’ streak, to the subject of orang gaji. (Paid Help). And everyone was being kind to me about my cake.

Albeit being a Kids party, it was a fun-filled afternoon for everyone with good enough food and certainly good company. Which has always been what’s important to my Hubby and I.

I think I’m getting the hang of the whole party for kids event planning thing. I should think about making a business out of it huh?

Not!

a Smiley button for everyone!

a Smiley button for everyone!

body jewes for the Girls. cool ya?

and body jewels for the Girls. cool?

Oh. I should mention. My Husband was in charge of the Music Station. U rock Darling!

Oh Oh. And we did do the Earth Hour thing, but didn’t take pictures. We were all exhausted by that time anyway, we just plain forgot as we sat in the darkness. Tsk!

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Tale of Two Babes

Monday, March 30th, 2009

p10204921Let me tell you about these two Babes.

The Babe on the right is the BFF. She’s the same age as me, went to the same school as me and grew up in Church together with me.

Then, we got married, the same year, and got pregnant with our first child, the same year. In fact, the estimated due date for our Babies was in the same week. No. None of this we planned together.

That brings us to Tiny Babe on the left. As it turned out, BFF Babe had her Baby five weeks early. Tiny Babe felt so comfortable inside Mommy’s belly, she came late. And it turns out, Tiny Babe came on BFF Babe’s birthday. String of special coincidences, no?

Happy Birthday Babes!

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I’m Busy

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009

And I know everybody is.

I wish I was Bree, who gets everything done perfectly every time and ON time. But I’m not. I wish I was some Supermom who can come up with the most super creative ideas and is a super budget keeper that her Kid will have a super birthday party. But I’m not. I wish I had 25 hours a day, 8 days to a week and 367 days in the year to be  everything to everyone. And I don’t.

And when one blogs, they’re supposed to post something of value to their readers and to the wider blogosphere. And I can’t.

I need coffee.

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I Can Read

Friday, March 20th, 2009

One of the things I love about Big Sis is her love for books and reading. In Kindergarten, she completed the Ladybird Reading series and earned a Reader Certificate as well as an ‘I Can Read’ badge which was presented to her at Graduation.

Once, at a Bookstore, a Mother commented to me that she was impressed at Big Sis’ reading when Big Sis appeared to be of a younger age than the Mother expected of the regular Reader. I politely informed the Mom that in fact, Big Sis is a petite size and that many of her friends can read too. The Mother went on to tell me that hers still can’t read as well and her child was about to enter Year 1 of Primary School. I smiled and looked at Big Sis who was seated among books reading quietly but audibly.

These days Big Sis likes to read just before going to sleep and while we read the Bible together often times, I wanted to introduce her to some other books I had found memorable when I was younger. I was delighted to have found the Classic Starts Series at the new Harris Bookstore at 1B that carried some of my favorite titles in Junior Reader version.

I gave her the choice of Heidi, The Swiss Family Robinson (”Ah. THIS is good.” said Daddy) and Little Women. I then gave her a summary of each title – the adventures of a Little Girl up in cold mountains, a shipwrecked Family’s trials and triumph, and a tale of Sisters.  “I’ll have the one that tells about Sisters, Mommy.” said She. Good choice Sweetheart.

When we get ready for bed now, I ask her about the latest happenings with the Little Women and she very readily recaps all she’s read, punctuated with some of her own opinions. “Little Sis is just like Amy, Mommy!” “Ohh.. So Meg is sixteen years old. That means she’s a teenager, right Mommy?”

Tonight I’m looking forward to hearing about another chapter of the lives of the Sisters. More so for Big Sis’ thoughts about what she read. My hope for her is to travel far and wide to learn new things all in the comfort of her own home and with the people she loves close by.

“it’s not safe to leave Flutterfield, but when I read I get to visit the entire universe..” – Mariposa from Barbie’s Mariposa

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While you were out Mommy…

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009

Was out with the Hubby last night meeting with some friends. Left the Girls in the able care of their Nana, my Mom. Came home to sleeping Children with notes on their hands.

This one’s from Big Sis…
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And here’s from Middle Sis…
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I am so blessed to  be their Mommy.

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