Archive for the ‘Family Life’ Category

Superhero GRANma

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

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This here is my maternal grandmother.

She is currently recuperating in the hospital from a bout of severe diarrhea that saw her physically weakened to worrying levels and had to be rehydrated intravenously. Thankfully, doctors expect her to recover fully and will be allowed home in a matter of 24 hours from today.

Ever met a superhero Granma before? I have one. Live and kicking. She’s the homestead’s equivalent of kick-ass power woman executive of corporate Malaysia. Even after having kids she continued to work the fields and brought in her own income. Never depending on my Grandfather.

When she moved to the city, everybody knew her as the very able cleaning lady who went up and down buses getting to her work place, fearless and formidable. God help the person trying to trick her into parting with her schoolboy backpack filled with her possessions. She’ll give you a good whack with her umbrella.

Long after everybody else’s Granmas were having kopitiam (coffeshop) breakfasts with other Granmas and playing mahjong, she continued to work until she was physically not able to. Quite the career lady my Granma.

I am glad she is going home from the hospital soon. I knew she would.

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Food. Friends. Fun

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

Food + Friends = Fun.

This certainly was the outcome at my second daughter’s seven year old birthday party recently.

The day started with some Sand Art.

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Then came Games.

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Oooh… Pressure mounts as the seats keep getting removed…

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I’m not sure what this game was, but see those mini fans some of the Kids are holding? I got those as prizes for winners of the games. Super cute no?

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Here’s Jacob. Goofing.

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Then came the food. But not before a photo with the friends who made the birthday memorable.

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Ok, don’t laugh. But I made this.

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I heard you laughing. Obviously, I need to work on my cake decorating skills. Now stop laughing.

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Finger food galore.

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That was the program proper.

Afterwards, it was ‘free-style’ for the Kids and we heard comments like “Ok. I’m the King and you can be the Guards ok?” Spunky declared, “I’m the Princess!!” There was even a small fight that fortunately ended with a hug and “I forgive you.” Aww.

No, this was not the hug and ‘I forgive you’. I just wanted to show these cuties off. I just ADORE them!

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And the adults who came?

They enjoyed 2 kilos of Buffalo Wings which I had them down with Shandy and finish with a Chocolate Sheet Cake. Yup. I made them all too. And the conversation went from everything on education to why the folks in the big city of  West Malaysia find it hard to give maids a day off when over here, we ASK maids to take a day off so we could have the family all to ourselves. Dang the company was good.

Food for Adults + Friends = Super Fun too!

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Badged

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

She came home with a badge this past week.

‘Assistant Class Monitor’.

She was mighty proud.

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Breaking News

Friday, June 19th, 2009

We’re taking a break from all photos of sights and scenes to mourn the loss of our one month and 10 days old, dearly loved, carpet-chinchilla pet rabbit, Bengy.

*sniff*

I was going through my to-do list for Middle Sis’ birthday party when I heard a rustling commotion at our backyard. ‘Oh, those pesky cats.’ I thought. ‘Fighting in my backyard again!’

This time though the commotion was louder than usual and there was even some banging and things dropping. Then I heard cat hissing. ‘Oh come on!’ thought I. Then I heard a squeak. And a few more squeaks. And the Mama Cat that regularly hangs out at our place was hissing more fiercely.

*sniff, sniff*

So I looked at the direction she was intensely glaring at. And I saw the Male Cat that often was the instigator of cat brawl in my backyard, biting something by the neck firmly in his mouth.  It was my poor Bengy!

I screamed at the cat and scuttled to find the keys to my backyard door grill, stepping the Mama Cat in the process. And I heard another squeak. ‘Poor bunny, poor bunny!’ I thought. ‘And he even looked at me with those beautiful round eyes!’

*sniff, sniff, sniff*

By the time I shot through the door however, the evil cat took off, our precious pet still hanging in his mouth by the neck. The freakin’ feline ran off like a bullet, leaving little ol’ me standing there, aghast.

I was silent for a while, trying to find my bearings. I finally got back into the house and called Hubs. And I recounted the scene to him between shocked pauses and breathless sobs.

*sniff, sniff, sniff, sniff*

Hubby said the next time he sees that cat, there won’t even be fur left behind.

The worst part was telling the Girls. I didn’t know how to do it. Hubs said it had to be done because they will come home from school to take Bengy out to play.

After picking them up from school, we parked and I gathered myself together to tell them. Just then, my phone rang and it was Hubby. He offered to tell them instead, so I put him on speaker phone. He began with “I’m sorry Children. Mommy and I have some bad news…”

The Older Two cried all the way home, Middle Sis falling asleep on the way, in tears. Spunky kept quiet right through. Upon reaching home, as if to find some closure, Big Sis went straight to Bengy’s cage, saw it empty and door ajar, and cried harder.

*sniff, sniff, sniff, sniff, sniff*

Hubby and I are still trying to figure how the killer cat was able to get the door of the cage to open and pounce on our pet.

Rest in peace Bengy. Or Benji. Or Ben-G. Whichever you prefer.

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*BAWL*

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I’ve Missed You Guys

Monday, June 15th, 2009

Hard to believe I know.

But really, I did. I’d gone without internet access for three whole days and I felt deprived of the world! Well, not really on the deprived part.

Anyhoo. The Rugrats are back at school and I guess I should update you on our recent trip out of town.

See this thing?

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Having passed through the Crocker Range and then down to the valley, its contents had a build up of pressure. My unsuspecting Middle Child opened its cap to use it just before digging into our stopover tea-time snack, after which a chunk of liquid splurted right into her eyes causing her stinging pain.

She screamed bloody murder.

This was her after a gargantuan splash of water over her eyes in the bathroom. See the wet spot on her shirt? She’s still reeling from the trauma of spurting germ-killing liquid. My poor baby. And stupid hand sanitizer.

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And yes, I realise Spunky is rearranging utensils over at the Cashier Counter in the background. Oblivious to the drama surrounding her Sister.

Here’s my Brother-in-Law, whose Family Homestay we stayed in the few days we were there.

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And here’s The Lady and Her Sons. One of whom is My Beloved.

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And here’s the nice little Homestay that we lived in.

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The Verandah, also known as The Bare Foot Zone according to the sign, which I totally didn’t remember to take a picture of.

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But if you look closely you’ll see it above the pretty young lady that’s giving you the peace sign.

Here’s the Kitchenette.

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And the Bathrooms.

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They use Gravity Water. But they also have a Hot Water Pump. Hot gravity water shower!

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And now you know!

The weather was cool. There was no sound of traffic. We were very comfortable. The Girls didn’t want to leave it!

See?

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I don’t know why they HAD to do THIS instead of go sightseeing.

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And yes, She came too.

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I Was Lazy

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Isn’t that what everyone around here says when they actually mean they don’t have the time?

“Haih. Malaslah sia.”

So I’m saying it today.

Between snapping at answering to the Kids’ inquiries 24/7, organising school-holiday activities, folding laundry, doing the dishes and keeping up with an upcoming Church event that Hubby and I are organising, I AM TOO LAZY TO GET TO THE BLOG.

It requires an extra ounce of effort to get to the computer which I don’t have for my already expended brain cells. To top it off, I’ve somehow managed to come up with a few post ideas that I’ve quickly saved into my drafts folder but which I just can’t get to completing because there will be one holler from at least one kid every one second. (How do those Superhero Moms do it?!) Now why do these ideas come on at the most inopportune times?? Oh, that’s right. Because life’s like that. Yup.

Tomorrow though, we are heading out to a town of approximately two hours away and spending a couple days there. For Hubby’s (I need to get him an online nickname! Something catchy. Quirky. And very Him.) work actually, but when he’s done with all the work, we thought we’d visit by his Brother and his Brother’s Family.

So depending on the Internet connection over there, I may post a picture or two of our out-of-town adventures, photojournalism style. (cewah!)

So see you when I do.

p.s A little bird tells me that Tune Store at 1B is closing down. See all those empty shelves with a sign that says ‘Sale’? Go figure.

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A New Family Addition

Monday, June 8th, 2009

bengyPlease help us welcome one month and a week old, mixed bred male Chinchilla to our Home. His name is Bengy.

*one clap*

We got the little fella over the weekend. Of the many that were up for show at the Giant Kolombong Saturday Tamu, this guy seemed most at ease with us. So we took him home. The buck was only too happy to have a bigger home than the one he was in to move into.

The Girls are thrilled and The Hubby keeps forgetting that Bengy is not female.

That’s what we finally called the little lagomorph when we realise it wasn’t going to be Bella.

He’s Bengy. Or Benji. Or Ben-G. Whichever he prefers.

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Filled

Friday, June 5th, 2009

It’s been full around here lately.

Let’s see.

We’ve been to the McD Drive-thru for breakfast, had another round of swim lessons, was at the Church’s New Friends Nite for dinner, visited a close family friend at the hospital, and I made a yummy-licious, super-creamy cheesecake.

And we haven’t yet started on the next item down the list of holiday activities – cookie-baking, catching the Hannah Montana movie and a trip to visit the Girls’ cousins in Tambunan.

Wow.

Also, I’ve been fiddling around with the multiple functions in my camera, and in particular the one to do with portrait picture taking.

Alas, I have tried uploading some of the shots for the 1000th time but IT JUST WOULDN’T UPLOAD. And then my Firefox shuts down. Grrrrr.

Later then.

Be back soon.

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I’m Planning ANOTHER Party…

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

Update: Here’s how it all went down. ;-)

Middle Sis is turning 7 soon and she requested some hangout time with friends for her birthday this year. Now that I’m a little bit more ‘experienced’ it was easy to come up with a theme she would like.

Naturally, it would be Artsy in nature. Lots of colours and artsy things to do.

For her cake, she requested it butterfly-shaped.

Oooh…

I took the bull by the horn and said Okay!

So, I had before me the choice of buying a butterfly-shaped cake tin or cut a butterfly shape out of the round or square cakes I could make. I really didn’t want to buy a butterfly cake tin for now, but I need to have a picture in my mind to shape the butterfly out of the cake pans I do have.

Enter a butterfly cake template I found off the Internet! Kids these days are so blessed – information is but a finger tip away…

It looks pretty simple. Let’s see how we go.

Now, back to my Checklist.

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Bliss

Monday, June 1st, 2009

It’s a public holiday over here. A replacement holiday for the Harvest Festival Celebrations which happened to fall on a weekend.

My Husband is home and so are my Kids.

I love that being a holiday that affects EVERYONE, I don’t feel rushed to accomplish all those important matters of the day.

I get to catch up on housework and complete outstanding household to-do’s, while The Hubby entertains the Kids and their inquiries. We have no need to rush off to anywhere and instead, leisurely carry out our plans for the day.

And we’re just basically hanging out with each other.

It’s so peaceful and calm that The Girls have no reason even to bicker.

*sigh*

Bliss.

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