If I lived to be 70 and I will be 36 this year, then I would have reached the mid-life milestone.
A large part of the first half of my life was spent trying to figure things out. When my father died when I was six, my life changed forever. I fought hard all those years to attain at least a resemblance of what I thought life should be. Accepting the fact that Dad would no longer be a part of my life for the rest of my life took a long time. I have also only since accepted that as much as I had fought to have the ‘normal’ life, the fact is my life isn’t ‘normal’. The decisions I make for my life would look somewhat different to a person who grew up with the same set of parents all their lives. This fact crystallized for me in my own Children, young as they are. My Eldest Girl is only one year older than I was when my father left unexpectedly and I can see it has made all that difference.
So what will the second part look like?
I’ll take a tip from John Maxwell, Leader to the Leaders… ‘Though you cannot go back and make a brand new start, my friend – Anyone can start from now and make a brand new end’. Beginning with a solid relationship with The Hubby, I would like to raise my Children to use their potential to the maximum they can, while not taking for granted the basic virtues of hope, faith and love.
Ok. I gotta go now. My Girls have invited me to their Tea Party in their room. Don’t want to be late for the Darlings.