At music practice tonight, Miss D came and whispered to me that she wanted to borrow this pink streamer ribbon (not sure what this apparatus is called; you would usually see this used for gymrama routines..) this other little girl was holding on to the entire evening.
I had long since observed that this other little girl had no desire whatsoever to share this item with anyone throughout the evening. In fact, I know this little girl, and frankly, I didn’t want my kids anywhere near her, to avoid my girls from picking up some character traits that I see in this other little girl that I don’t approve of.
So when Miss D came by my side to see whether I could borrow it for her, I said No. I told Miss D that it wasn’t that I didn’t want her to get to play the apparatus, but it was the other little girl who really had no intention of lending it to anyone, and was obviously keeping the item all to herself.
Miss D seemed disappointed at first, but didn’t make a fuss. I held her close and held her tight. After a while, she asked for my permission to pick up a different colored streamer ribbon, and went to join that little girl and played together with her. I noticed that eventually, the two girls enjoyed themselves. At one point however, Miss D tried to negotiate for the pink ribbon again from this other little girl, but she wouldn’t give. Miss D took this other little girl’s unwillingness kindly.
At that point, I felt so proud of my Miss D! I’d like to say that Cool Dad and I had taught her well thus far, but her ability to rise above such a circumstance is an ability that is rightfully her own.
I’ve had on occasions heard many parents express how proud they were to see their kids perform on stage, scored first placing in a race or make it on honor roll in class, and rightfully so, for here I am feeling that same feeling for my little girl, right here, right now.
That’s my Girl!